This morning, I sat down to write but instead have been reading other blogs, poetry online, watching YouTube videos, in general procrastinating rather than doing what I set out to do.
When I think about why I do this the answer is obvious. I want to write. I have written quite a few poems over the last few days, none of them are in a finished state yet, but they are there in black and white waiting for me to go back to edit or discard.
I attended my first ever poetry workshop on Saturday, and began the day feeling like a fraud. I felt that I was not familiar enough with language and its nuances, that I don’t have enough knowledge of poetry, either modern or classic. I love poetry and read as much of it as I can. My reading tends to be limited as finances do not allow me to spend huge amounts on books, so I read what I find online and in the library.
The workshop started off with the usual getting to know each other chat. I was the only one there that had not studied English or writing in some form at higher level. Most had either a degree in creative writing or were studying for their Masters in the subject. My feelings of inadequacy doubled at this point. I felt perhaps it might be best to sneak out and never come back.
There was not an option for that though, as we moved on quickly to some drama games to help us when reading/performing poetry. We then sat down to write and were given several prompts and three minutes in which to write about each. Not being used to this, my mind blanked for a few seconds, but then I remembered that I had come to learn and began to write.
We were then divided into groups of four to look through our writing and put together a reading or performance from what we had written. I did a double take when I realised the two well established poets at the workshop were in my group. They shared their very beautiful writing, then came my turn. Reluctantly, I read out what I had written, my voice shaking as I did so. I came to the end and sat back with a sigh of relief, thinking that would be it, my piece wouldn’t be used, I could just sit back and listen to the others reading theirs to the whole group.
It came as a surprise when I was asked to read it through again, which I managed with slightly less quivering this time. The others in my group then started to discuss what I had written, lines they particularly liked. words that stood out. They praised it as a whole and said while in ordinary circumstances it would of course need editing it “spoke” to them and for today I was to read it as it stood.
We put the four pieces together as one and read, nervously on my part. Our performance was greeted with enthusiasm, and all said they had enjoyed it.
I went home on a high and was able to sit and write with renewed vigour over the last few days. Maybe I wasn’t quite as bad as I thought I was.
I then sent a poem I had high hopes for to someone who occasionally reads my poetry and gives me feedback. This time they were not as gentle as they have been in the past. The poem was roundly lambasted. Too many mixed metaphors, a weak ending, too many of these types of poems around, this one doesn’t stand out from the crowd.
So, here I am again, wondering if I am any good at all. That I cannot even recognise when something is good or even worthwhile. I doubt not just my writing but my reading, is the poetry I like to read no good then?
And with the doubts, fear kicks in and paralyses me. When I fear the outcome will be no good, that I can’t d o it, then I lose that creative urge. The sneaky little voice inside tells me there is no point in wasting time writing rubbish. So, I procrastinate.